Self Belief

There comes a time your sense of judgement is doubted even by those who are your loved ones. By your kith and kin.

Some simply feel you are incapable of coming to a reasonable conclusion on resolving a serious matter.

They might be right. They may also be wrong. Why? 

Simply because they have not allowed their own soul think through the issue at hand.

They could have simply judged you based on past assumptions, whatever.

They could have judged on a wrong assumption that since you have approached them for an input, that will mean,you don't have a clue.

So they can rush into a decision and tell you: this is the way to go.

But they may be fatally wrong!

But at what time do your very being know you are right?

You may not know. And you may know.

But past failures and success are what you can rely upon.

Or better still, if you are fortunate to come across or seek a "total" stranger to your person, who luckily for you is smart. Good luck.

Smart enough to give the right direction to take. He or she is not in a position to be subjective, if you allow him or her so.

Above all, to belief in one's self takes time of pains, troughs, zeniths and other conquests of life experience and battle with your inner soul!

Your inner soul will tend to tell you the right thing to do but you may not necessarily get the absolute full marks all the time.

The secret is to ensure your successes are more than your failures.

Then you are on your journey to perfection: but  never ending journey though.